A wedding can be the most stressful time in a couple’s life. There are a lot of things to plan, organize, and execute. People tend to become very stressed during these events. Here are some tips to help you stay calm and stress-free during wedding planning.
- Plan early
This may seem like a no-brainer, but it’s important to set a realistic timeline for your planning. Consider how much time you have available, and then plan out your arrangements accordingly. It’s helpful to set up an overall outline for the planning process so you can ensure everything gets done on time. Put your final wedding date on the calendar and begin filling in all the other details in advance. Work with your vendors to set firm dates as soon as possible, so everyone involved is on the same page.
If you’re working with an out-of-town vendor or venue, be sure to factor in enough time to get your traveling plans in order. You may need to book flights or make hotel reservations. If you must stay somewhere else for the night before the wedding, you’ll need to reserve a room as well.
Schedule time to work on your wedding planning every single day. Even if it’s just for a few minutes here and there, try to stay on top of things, so you don’t find yourself scrambling at the last minute to take care of any loose ends. Give yourself enough time to do everything without feeling overwhelmed.
- Get organized
When it comes to getting everything sorted out for the wedding, proper organization is key. Create a spreadsheet to keep track of all the vendors you’ve hired and all the deposits you’ve made. That way, you’ll know who still needs to be paid and who hasn’t yet been contracted. You should keep track of what’s been done and what still needs to be worked on in the months leading up to the wedding date. That way, you can stay organized and on top of things throughout the planning process.
You should also consider setting up a shared folder in the cloud where you can keep all of your contracts and other important planning documents together. This way, you can instantly access them whenever you need to reference something or send a copy to a service provider or the wedding party.
- Make lists
Getting organized can help you feel less stressed. Make a to-do list for every task that needs to be done, and check things off as you go. If you don’t complete something on your list one week, reschedule it for a different day when you are more likely to get it done. It does you no good to keep adding things to your list that don’t get done!
You should also make lists of things you need to buy, who you need to invite to your wedding, what your budget is, etc. This way, you have everything written down that you need to remember, so you don’t have to try to remember it all on your own. It’s important to remember that you don’t have to do everything yourself. If someone else offers to help, say yes. You can also enlist your friends and family to help you get things done. Just be clear about what you need help with.
- Set priorities
The planning process can be overwhelming, so it’s important to set priorities and focus on the logistics that are truly important. Your wedding day should be joyful and fun, not stressful! You should focus your efforts on activities that have the biggest impact on the success of your big day and delegate or forget about the rest. For example, you should hire a wedding planner to handle all of your vendors.
- Hire professionals
Many couples feel overwhelmed when planning their wedding, and it’s easy to let the stress of wedding planning affect your health and relationships. Instead, hire professionals to assist you with all of the details so that you can enjoy the planning process and be stress-free on your big day.
- Hire a professional wedding planner. Your wedding planner will be your advocate throughout the planning process to make sure all of the details are taken care of and will help oversee your team of vendors. A wedding planner will be able to handle last-minute emergencies and ensure that everyone arrives on time. Browse our gallery for a closer look at our wedding events.
- Employ an experienced team of wedding vendors. A professional photographer will capture your wedding day in a style that truly reflects who you are as a couple, while a talented DJ will keep your family and friends on the dance floor all night long.
Be honest about your budget with your wedding planner and vendors. The best vendors will be able to give you an idea of your total costs based on your needs, style, and guest count and then can help you decide what portions of your wedding to include or leave out based on your budget.
- Communicate with your vendors
When you meet with your caterer, florist, photographer, and other wedding professionals, be sure to communicate your needs clearly and in a detailed manner. Remember that these individuals have likely planned many weddings before – so they may be an expert at reading between the lines! Be sure to give them as many specifics as possible to ensure everything runs smoothly on your big day. While you don’t want to micromanage every aspect or vendor of your wedding, communicating your expectations to them will ensure that they understand your vision for the wedding day and can help you bring it to life. Remember, it’s critical that you meet your vendors in person; that doesn’t mean you have to meet with the catering company multiple times, but you should have an in-person meeting with them to discuss your menu, then follow up with an email with any specific desires or questions you may have for the big day. Your florist will likely make a recommendation on your bouquet size based on the size of your dress. If you send them photos of yourself in your wedding dress before you meet, they will be able to better advise you regarding what flowers will complement you best. When your wedding day finally arrives, you can rest assured that you’re in good hands! Providing clear communication to your professional vendors is the best way to ensure that your vision for the day becomes a reality.
- Set realistic expectations
While your wedding day will be one of the best days of your life, it’s important to set your expectations accordingly. Avoid setting yourself up for disappointment by expecting everything to be perfect or flawless. Things are bound to go wrong, and there’s nothing you can do about it! Instead, focus on enjoying yourself on your special day and making lasting memories with your new spouse.
To make your wedding day relaxing and perfect, contact Events 4 Life; we will plan out every minute detail of the wedding. Visit us at 16633 NE 40th Ct, Redmond, WA 98052, for a discussion in person, or ring us up at (425)-737-9015 to book your appointment.
